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Somatic Experiencing® heals trauma
Originally posted February 23, 2020. I wanted to announce that I’ve added Somatic Experiencing® to my skillset as a psychotherapist....


Favorite Books of 2019
Originally posted February 5, 2020. If President Barack Obama can release his 2019 book list, so can I! Of course, my book list consists...


Estrangement, loneliness and the holidays
Originally posted December 16, 2019. Have a peaceful holiday season, with a side of realism! In May of 2018, Cigna surveyed 20,000...


Tips for Facing the Holidays for Sexual Abuse Survivors
Originally posted December 6, 2019. Trauma survivors are made particularly anxious by the hoopla around the holidays. Because of the fear...


Me and My Chronic Pain
Originally posted November 30, 2019. These are not my actual x-rays…but I have a rod, plate and pins Chronic pain is defined as pain that...


Thanksgiving: An Antidote for Life in a Narcissistic World
As I shopped for and then began to prepare food for my family, I thought about this poem I have displayed in my counseling office. In my...


Research: Small Everyday Pleasures Make a Big Difference
Updated June, 2023 How effective are everyday stress management techniques in helping keep a person healthy? How strongly do everyday...


Tap into Heart-Centered Relaxation anywhere – even standing on line
Practice Heart Centered #Meditation to increase Mental Health and expand self love


Vivian at College: Am I involved with a narcissist?
Originally posted October 17, 2019. When Ted’s daughter Vivian FaceTimed him from college, she seemed a bit down. He suspected it was...


Sarah asks: Is verbal abuse really abuse?
Originally posted September 15, 2019. It was a few months before Sarah felt she trusted me enough to reveal what she felt was her deepest...


Aromatherapy: Make Your Own Flower Essences
Updated January 3, 2022 Aromatherapy: Make Your Own Flower Essences Think of flower essences as the Reiki of the plant world, as they ...


Meditation for Boundaries: Blue Circle of Fire
Originally posted August 6, 2019. You are busy! The office is humming! Things are totally running amok today! The phone is ringing and...


Five Sweet Ideas for Remembering Someone You Love
You hopefully have plenty of lovely people in your life. Friends and family can be an amazing support network when it comes to dealing...


Co-parenting Through Divorce: Part One: Finding Strength Within as You Redefine the Self
As you go through your divorce, do you think you are acting out your unconscious hurts and anger on yourself and others, possibly your...


Self Care During Therapy – Positive Energy Bubble
Positive energy bubble is a simple mindfulness technique to preserve your positive energy when you're in the thick of it at work


Lovingkindness Meditation
For today’s world…sending out lovingkindness energy to all living beings. Loving-kindness, Metta, is the Buddhist meditation practice...


Valentine’s Day: Lavender Rose Body Butter
Updated February 14, 2022 Is there anything more beautiful, relaxing and intoxicating all at once than standing near a real lavender...


Beeswax to Oil Ratios for Salve
Updated January 5, 2022 I’ve been making salves for my friends and family for a few years now. And I am still just winging it as far as...


How much stress in pregnancy is too much?
Deep listening is deeply healing (istock/izusek)


Hire a postpartum doula to help in the fourth trimester
What is a postpartum doula? A postpartum doula is a woman hired to “mother the mother” after childbirth. Sometimes postpartum doulas say...
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