The Psychology of Flow: The Joy of Being Fully Engaged
Although the concept of flow was first introduced by psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi nearly fifty years ago, the concept flow has garnered the nterest of researchers in many fields. Today, there is a large body of research covering flow. Researchers study flow in fields ranging from education and creativity to health, technology, sports, and positive psychology.
What is the Psychology of Flow?
Flow is a deeply immersive state of attention that supports nervous system regulation and emotional well-being. Researchers have discovered that the flow state is inherently self-rewarding.
For example, you’re moving about your garden, hands in the soil, completely absorbed. Or you’re at the piano, playing your favorite Mozart sonatas, ones that you learned years ago and still totally engage you; and you move from piece to piece, and when you finally look up, an hour has passed.
Or you’re cooking something you love, following instinct more than recipe, moving through the kitchen with an ease that feels almost effortless.
Flow is a state of complete absorption in a meaningful activity. The concept was introduced by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi — a Hungarian-American psychologist who spent years interviewing people, such as artists, athletes, musicians, and surgeons ... who regularly described losing themselves in their work in ways that felt deeply regulating.
Flow is not described as bliss or relaxation. It's described as feelings of "enjoyment, purpose and meaning..." .
Flow isn’t passive. It's not zoning out. It's not escaping life. It's you engaged in your life. And research shows that the flow state is good for your mental health.
You don’t need to be a concert violinist or a professional chef to experience it.
Flow is an ordinary, and extraordinary, human experience.
The Neurochemistry of Flow
From a neuroscience perspective, flow is a remarkable state. The brain becomes neurochemically primed for both pleasure and performance.
In a state of flow, stress hormones decrease. The neurochemistry associated with wellbeing, such as dopamine, norepinephrine, anandamide, serotonin, and endorphins, all increase. This neurochemical activity fosters a calm sense of wellbeing, enhanced focus, and a balanced mood.
Researchers believe that these neurochemical changes not only boost our performance but also explain why experiencing flow is inherently rewarding and why we naturally seek out activities that trigger it.
With these brain and nervous system changes, several things happen simultaneously:
Focus narrows. The prefrontal cortex, responsible for planning, rumination, and self-criticism, calms down in a process known as transient hypofrontality. This leads to less concern about potential problems and greater immersion in the present moment.
The inner critic goes quiet. Self-consciousness & self-referential thoughts recede.
Your perception of time changes. Many individuals experiencing flow mention that time either elegantly slows down or vanishes altogether. What seems like minutes can actually be hours. This temporal distortion is a common characteristic of the state.
Flow is Good for the Nervous System
One of the things I find most clinically meaningful about flow is how it regulates the nervous system.
One pathway toward nervous system regulation is through mindfulness practices such as meditation, breathing exercises, and gentle awareness.
Another pathway is through becoming completely absorbed in a meaningful activity. Rather than intentionally calming the mind, flow quiets it naturally through deep engagement.
When you’re deeply absorbed in tending a garden, the brain isn’t scanning for threat. When you’re knitting a complicated pattern, there isn’t room for rumination.
When you’re watching birds at the feeder and trying to identify a new species, your attention shifts from internal worry to outward curiosity.
Flow moves you out of chronic stress into a state of non-judgmental engagement. Engaging work and hobbies can move you into a state of flow.
Flow Doesn't Have to Be Extraordinary
Flow is experienced by regular people doing regular things. Flow is not just for novelists or artists. Puttering in the garden, pruning roses, checking the growth of your wildflowers and tomatoes can be deeply absorbing. Doing a Lego project, doing a jigsaw puzzle, hiking, skiing or playing an instrument can induce the flow state.
I can name a few everyday hobbies where I experience the flow state.
When I make my flower essences or herbal salves, I become fully absorbed in the experiential process. I find it absorbing to visit the garden, examine the plants, choose which ones I'd like to work with that day, and then go through the rest of the creative process. Time just flies by as I study the plants and enjoy the day.
Many people describe similar experiences.
My son experiences the flow state while working on his Lionel train layout. Designing scenery, solving technical challenges, and operating the trains requires complete concentration. Hours can pass without either of us realizing how much time has gone by. Like gardening, the activity is rewarding for its own sake.
A drummer described reaching a point where the rhythm seemed to take over. Rather than consciously thinking about each movement, the music flowed naturally, and an hour passed before they realized how much time had gone by.
Artists, knitters, woodworkers, rock climbers, bakers, photographers, birdwatchers, and gardeners often describe the same phenomenon.
At first glance, these activities seem to have nothing in common. Yet psychologists have found that people engaged in them often describe the same subjective experience: complete concentration, diminished self-consciousness, an altered sense of time, and deep satisfaction in the activity itself.
Flow Is Helpful During Difficult Times
During stressful times, life becomes focused on surviving rather than engaging. Worrying about health and finances can take over your emotional state.
Distraction from the worry can be open up some room for joy and connection.
Engaging in activities like gardening, painting, woodworking, baking, or taking nature walks doesn't eliminate difficulties, but it can help manage stress. It softly reassures the nervous system that curiosity, competence, and joy are possible.
Finding Your Flow
We often think healing happens only in doctor's offices or therapy sessions.
But healing also happens quietly while tending a garden, baking bread, painting with watercolors, practicing the piano, or losing yourself in a favorite trail.
What activity makes you lose track of time?
What did you love doing as a child?
What hobby leaves you feeling energized instead of depleted?
When do you forget to check your phone?
When do you feel both challenged and capable?
What can help you find flow:
reduce interruptions
choose activities that are challenging but not overwhelming
use your senses
spend time outdoors
silence notifications
practice regularly instead of perfectly
Flow and Mindfulness: Similar but Different
Flow and mindfulness both bring us into the present moment, but they do so in different ways.
Although flow shares many qualities with mindfulness, the relationship between these two experiences deserves a closer look. We'll explore that in a future article.
The Healing Garden
Many of the quiet moments I share from my Healing Garden happen while I'm in a state of flow. Whether I'm deadheading roses, noticing a new woodland wildflower, or simply listening to the birds before the day begins, my attention softens and time seems to disappear.
I don't go into the garden to "achieve flow." I go because I love being there and flow finds me.
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5 Mindful Gardening Benefits– Discover how spending time in nature can support emotional well-being and nervous system regulation.
Expressive Arts & Wise Mind for Emotional Healing – Learn how creativity can reduce stress, encourage self-expression, and foster psychological growth.
The Healing Garden Series – Reflections on finding peace, wonder, and restoration through gardening and the natural world.
Sources
Csikszentmihalyi, M. (1990). Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience. New York: Harper & Row.
Csikszentmihalyi, M. (1997). Finding Flow: The Psychology of Engagement with Everyday Life. New York: Basic Books.
Yongfa Zhang, Fei Wang; Developments and Trends in Flow Research Over 40 Years: A Bibliometric Analysis. Collabra: Psychology 16 January 2024; 10 (1): 92948. doi: https://doi.org/10.1525/collabra.92948
